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CHURCH OF ENGLAND – A SAFE CHURCH?
The idea of Safe Church comes from a very sad place. Just like as any safety instruction is on a product because someone hurt themselves or others.  The Church, alongside others organisations, has invested heavily in Safeguarding because in the past people have been harmed.
 It is a word that raises connotations of constraint and negativity – “it was because of Safeguarding that we could not….” (fill in the blanks). This became even more stark during lockdown when we were already constrained.
BUT we have a duty of care to keep one another safe.
And that is all safeguarding means. A system and culture that aims to ensure that all are safe and that harm is prevented.
The National Church has been hauled over the coals on past failings. Cases of perpetrators, including clergy and church officers, harming under 18s and vulnerable adults, have been scrutinised through the Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse (IICSA) and the Past Cases Review (PCR). Cases of historic abuse sometimes led to cover up such as that of Bishop Bell.
High profile church leaders are now sadly infamous for their inappropriate behaviour over significant lengths of time. All had been admired for their ministry. All had an untouchable leadership hold on their congregations and teams through their dominant presence and personality. Survivors carry the burden of the abuse they received.
 
Harm is rare.
BUT its effects are long lasting and can be life-long.
The Churches have responded over the last 15 years and especially the last 5 years in response to these scrutinising reviews that found the Church wanting.
That is the background to Safer Church which is a national Church of England response. It could have been called “more than a DBS”, for that is for many years, what many would associate with Safeguarding. Get the paperwork done and we will be ok.
We recognise now that Safeguarding is a culture not an event.
That means that everyone is part of ensuring that we are a Safe Church.
At PCC this week we agreed a set of principles that we can follow to ensure that all are aware of the need to be a Safe Church and everyone’s role within that.
 
SAFEGUARDING PRINCIPLES
Everyone protects boundaries and vulnerabilities by reporting.
1. EVERYONE: Everyone is the eyes, ears and heart of a safe church
2. PROTECTS: Safe church intends to protect the vulnerable and the innocent and put off the perpetrator
3. BOUNDARIES: Keeping safe boundaries (physical and emotional) are key - if in any doubt, ask first*
4. VULNERABILITIES: Power imbalance is always part of abuse - that’s why we particularly safeguard children and vulnerable people
5. REPORTNG: Report don’t solve or investigate

* examples can include being alone with a child/vulnerable person, asking for personal information, invading personal space, physical touch, directive prayer, making assumptions about or commenting on a person, handling anything financial etc
 
By being alert to potential concerns all can be part of the culture of being a Safe Church.

All team leaders and members are required to do a certain amount of Safeguarding training and staff and senior leaders do more extensive training.

If you have a concern or are not sure refer to the clergy, staff team or wardens or our two Parish Safeguarding Officers (PSO).
We are all supported by the professional DIOCESAN SAFEGUARDING TEAM and concerns are reported to them to help guide any actions.

For safeguarding concerns out of office hours, please call 020 3874 6743 (duty out of hours phone).

If you have urgent concerns about the safety of a child or vulnerable adult, please contact the police.

Pamela Chisholm, Diocesan Safeguarding Adviser
07982 279713

Louise Vernon, Assistant Diocesan Safeguarding Adviser
07946 255622
Contacts are advertised in every room on posters entitled “SAFE CHURCH”.

Why is Safe Church so important?

Because it is important to God.

We heard recently what the Psalmist says to each and every person he has made, and will make:
For you created my inmost being;
    you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
    your works are wonderful,
    I know that full well.

 
If you have any questions please let me know. We would love to follow up with events to reinforce and increase our awareness of what it takes to adopt a culture that helps us be a Safe Church here at Christ Church.
Every blessing
Doug
vicar@christchurchpurley.org.uk

Safeguarding at Christ Church Purley

Hello
Hello and welcome to our church. If you are a new visitor, we have a page for you to get to know us and learn more about planning a visit.
Click here to see more.

Planning your Visit

Welcome to Christ Church Purley 

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The following information is aimed initially at those planning a visit but is useful for anyone visiting Christ Church Purley for the first time on a Sunday.


Where and When
We meet at Christ Church Purley (click here for directions). For our Sunday Services starting at 8:45am and 10:15am, for your first visit, we recommend arriving 15 minutes early to help you get a parking space and find somewhere to sit before the service begins. When you arrive, you should be greeted by someone on our Welcome Team who will be wearing a Welcome lanyard and will be happy to help.

We serve tea and coffee between the first and second services from 9:45am and then after the service at 11:30am. It is a great way to meet people, or simply take time to find your bearings. All refreshments are free.

Accessibility: There is wheelchair access and a sound loop for anyone who needs it. There are disabled toilets off of the Foyer.

Our Services 
Our 8:45am Service is traditional in style with Holy Communion, liturgy and hymns on an organ. You will be lead through the service throughout by the leader. 

The 10:15am service is relaxed in style and led by a band. It is broadcast online and past services can be watched here. It begins with a warm welcome from one of our team and opening prayer. We typically have two or three songs and notices lasting approximately 15 minutes.

At 10:30am the children and young people leave for their groups. A speaker will give a talk that is bible based and that we can apply to our everyday lives after which there is usually a song and a led-prayers. One of our leaders will share news and notices, usually about what is going on in the life of the church and we then finish with a final worship song and blessing.

Every second Sunday of the month we share Holy Communion and the children and young people return to join as a whole church family otherwise parents will pick up their children at 11:30am.

On the first Sunday of the month at 10:15am we all worship together in a Worship for Everyone service, with round tables and activities.

Third service:  This is a extended worship and word service led by a band and happens at 11.45am on the first and second Sundays of the month.

Gospel Service: On the last Sunday of each month at 6:30pm, an informal service of worship and word in the Foyer space.

Children and teenagers
We have a great programme lined up for children of all ages:

Stay & Play (Pre-school years). Parents/carers remain and join in with the fun
Kids 1 (5-7 years)
Kids 2 (8-11 years)
Youth (11-18 years)

Parents register their children aged 5-11 years prior to the start of the service from 10am and stay with their parent or grown-up for the start of the service for the welcome, songs and notices.

The children’s group activities vary depending on the age but usually there are topic-themed activities, games, craft, bible story, music and ministry. Youth fill up on doughnuts whilst discussing how God is relevant to their every-day and those under five, stay and play with their adult whilst enjoying coffee, tea and chatting with other parents. Free-play and themed activities precede an interactive story and song time learning about Scruffy the puppet dog’s latest dilemma and Mr Bible’s always-great advice.


Getting Connected:

Discipleship Groups

While Sundays are a great way to meet new people, it is often in smaller gatherings that you can really get to know someone. Being part of one of our discipleship groups allows you to make new friends, share together and support each other through biblical study. We have a variety of groups that meet throughout the week, some morning and some evenings. If you would like to join one we can put you in touch with a discipleship group leader who will be more than happy to invite you along to their group.

Serving and Volunteering
If you want to get involved in the life of the church and community throughout the week, you can sign up to serve on a team.

Why not complete our Newcomer form and sign up for the Newsletter?